Graylion's Store Blog

And here they are

As announced earlier, we are now stocking Gerecke chastity belts. Now since i have tried it, I can tell you that keeping a man chaste is one of the most effectives ways i know to keep him submissive and attentive.

Guy, try not coming for a week. try masturbating and not coming and then not coming for a week. It is electrifying. the amount of tingle in one's spine one gets is rather amazing. Not to mention the incredible orgasm when you come :)

New Deathboy album

A friend of mine has brought a new album out - and it's free!

check it out :

New (free) DeathBoy album: Forwards

we likes him!

New Rock!

So we have another product range: New Rocks! I own several pair myself and am sometimes tempted to live in them, if there weren't that many other shoes that are also cool :)

The Reactor 272s have become my favourite boots to wear with a Utilikilt, they are absolutely perfect and the first time I wore them out around town I had to shakes hands and had my picture taken :)

What do we learn from this? People may be shy to experiment in fashion themselves, but do appreciate somebody who puts something together that works. So go out and experiment :) And yes we will be making kilts too!

Chastity Belts

I am a switch but am currently playing with a domme. we decided that I should have a chastity device and for mostly financial reasons I decided on a CB2000 which also seems to suit my anatomy quite well. The first experiments were somewhat disappointing though. Long term wear did not seem to be possible, as the whole weight rested on my balls when not erect, which got sore quite quickly. Then I spied a post in a German Chastity forum which showed a harness to support the CB and remove the weight from the testicles, pulling it close to the body:

That solved the problem immediately! Works, is comfy and highly recommended. And it cost about 50 cents! The material is the kind of elastic band you use for sewing (like for the waistband of briefs and stuff like that).

goths and fetishists, reenactors and pervs ...

There seem to be huge overlaps between those communities (and yes, before you ask, I belong to all of them ;-) ). Goths wear fetish clothing, 50% of the SCA seems to be kinksters, gamers run around in goth clothes (at least here in Dublin) etc. I wonder why this is.

We all seem to reject mainstream reality to some extent or other. We all also seem to be romantics. Is it as simple as that? Or is it more complicated than that? A lot of people seem to have "come home" into the SCA for instance. For most people who are kinksters BDSM is kinky sex. A more interesting form of foreplay as it was. For some of us it touches our deep down demons and in some cases we don't need sex with it.

So is it a sign of a dysfunction? Or a way of coping with one? On some levels I think so. Most people who have BDSM or SCA or goth or whatever as a hobby this probably won't apply to. To some of us it does. From my experience most of us who this applies to suffer from grievous wounds sustained as well as high intelligence and imagination. So we would be probably be dissatisfied with everyday life life anyways. So is it a sign of boredom? Questions, questions :)

Anyway, as i belong to all these groups, in a way i want to cater to all of them :)

And here a femsub shot

so here is my lovely photographer on the other side of the camera :)

The webmaster is a switch :)

And here a shot of your friendly webmaster at work ;)

Everyday fetish

The thing that I am pursuing with this shop is my idea of an integrated lifestyle. I know that some people want to separate their regular life and their sexuality for whichever reasons. This is fair enough, but not for me. I want to cater to those who are kinky and proud of it ;) I like to have kink in my everyday life.

So what I am trying to achieve, especially with the Graylion label products is to get that mixture of kink and everyday usability going. Therefore we have the jacket with the built-in arm restraints as well as the trousers that give full access and the skirt that can be used for restraining your sub. We will expand on these ideas, also adding beds and other furniture. None of these designs are going to be what I would call pornographic, but will have style and class, that allows them to be worn in every day situations, while adding a certain twist. Some of these features will be partly visible, some totally invisible.

I dream of living my life as one person, not as a person that wears different masks as expected by my surrounds and this is what drives my designs and this shop. I also like laid back erotics not the stark aestetic of today. I am a big admirer of the old Bizarre Magazine by John Willie and like the way he put fetish into an everyday context, like in this picture:

This is an illusion of course, but one I like: A you girl going down a dusty country road in ultraheels. I have also seen a video about "defetishising ballet heels"* for instance. Exactly! That is what I am talking about. I want a society where one can lead one's sweetheart on a leash on the street and it is considered no different than a couple holding hands - which is what is.

*copyright is Light-Fetish